We played this after playing sex talk, like directly after. It was nice after such an intense experience to get personal and be open and vulnerable.
I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and yet I learned so much about him and his values from this game.
I do recommend getting this game along with sex talk, though this can stand alone very well. Some of the cards got my boyfriend to say things that reminded me why I was in love with him. Please get this game!
My boyfriend and I are shy when it comes to sex, and we always had a hard time talking about it and bringing up things we wanted to try. After playing this game, it feels like we broke through so many barriers together. The sex has been AMAZING and the communication throughout it all has been perfect! My boyfriend gets eager to play the game and doesn’t want to play all the cards yet so we have more to come back to.
This game made sex so much more fun and exciting, and it created so much healthy conversation between the two of us.
I would highly recommend this game to all new lovers but trust me that any couple could benefit !!!
I saw the Sex Talks cards recommended by Suzi Godson, the Saturday Times relationship therapist.
My husband and I had just started couples counselling after a blip in our 35 year relationship and we ordered both the Love Talks and Sex Talks cards to help us reconnect.
We've selected some cards to take on walks and they have really helped us to explore our emotions, hopes, fears and desires - we've talked more meaningfully than we have for years.
I can really recommend these cards and we will continue to dip into them to keep our marriage fresh and intimate
My partner and I have been using these questions during dinner and it has been lovely getting to know him.
I personally think they are so great for dinner discussion. Thank you so much for sharing, Ashley <3
-Mickie
Really enjoyed the questions and learned a lot of new things about my partner even though we’ve been dating 3 years. The conversations were so good we barely made it through one card at times.
Thank you so much for sharing your experience, Gabriella :) LT is my faveee
-Mickie
Picked these up at our local sex shop because the packaging stood out to us. The words on the blocks are cheeky and fun. We had a great time ;)
Conversation that lasted for days.Thank you
We live very busy lives with older (but still in the nest) teenagers that just keep our schedules wrecked. Like so many couples, we used to be very free and open around each other. We’d talk about sex often and she looked forward to “hanging out.” But with our schedule these past years, we just haven’t been very connected and certainly haven’t been as open with each other as we used to be.
Feeling like we needed to slow down and talk more, I attempted to ask her questions about her evolved likes and dislikes several times in the past months. Those conversations didn’t go well as she’d tell me she was feeling interrogated, put on the spot, and that she didn’t want to give me an answer for fear that I’d hold her to it.
We’d planned a couple weekend together without kids and I bought these to “play” on the way up. She opened the box, would read the question, and then we’d take turns answering with our points of view. I figured we’d get 10 cards in and she’d find some reason to end the “game.” I couldn’t have been more wrong. We got through the entire deck before we reached our destination. And then she starts saying things like “why didn’t you tell me you felt this way before” and “why didn’t you just ask before.” I was literally perplexed. I looked like the dog trying to figure out the magic trick. I haven’t experienced my wife being this open and talkative about intimacy in YEARS. Some of that was the trip sans kids for sure … but the difference in our conversations once the ice was broken was literally night and day.
Fast forward … I don’t have an answer for why a deck of cards with questions can get folks to talk freely … but this is the single best investment I’ve ever made in my marriage.
Mind. Still. Blown.
Expansion pack please!
These were cute! The blocks are smaller than regular Jenga (makes sense since there are 69 blocks versus the 54) and easier to wiggle out. We picked up the game to switch things up on our game night. A ton of of fun and laughs. Play with drinks - its more fun!
The only sex question game worth it. Thoughtful product. Glad to see they have other games too
The cards are honestly really funny and do bring up topics that you wouldn’t think about sometimes so it’s nice to get outside your comfort zone!
Great product!! Told our therapist about the deck and she ordered one right away! Wonderful way to connect more deeply and drive meaningful conversation with your partner.
The packaging and quality of the card materials itself was very good. The box is sturdy and well-made, certainly capable of being shoved around in a bedside drawer for a while. In addition, it was sent with some fake rose petals which was a cute addition. I feel like the first 15 cards were not nearly as good as the rest. I almost quit using them, but if you keep going you’ll probably find cards you like more than others. Overall they are lots of fun and bring up topics you would probably otherwise never talk about!
I loved playing the game with my partner. The questions were fun and some led to deeper conversations. I feel closer to her now 🙂
Super thoughtful questions!
This is a really fun game to play with your partner
I bought this for my husband and myself who are going through a bit of a rough time in our marriage. (We've known each other for seven years and have been married for five.) This is really helping so far to open up conversation. We do a couple of cards every night. We've liked most of the questions so far. I think they're pretty good for getting to know someone more intimately. I would recommend this to any couple who has been together for more than a few weeks really. In fact, I'm thinking of giving it as gifts to my parents and sister and brother-in-law.
The discussion that these cards started was indeed intense. At first we both were unsure about the deck of cards. We did skip a few questions (that we plan to return to at some point) but as we kept going, we got deep and connected in a very interesting way. I don't think this deck is for everyone, but if you're feeling brave, if you're feeling the pull -- I say go for it :P
This really gets you chatting as a couple! Who would have thought after 30 years of marriage and working together-there would be so many interesting things to learn about my each other. We have been enjoying this game very much.
Love this game! Conversations about love and sexuality can be difficult to initiate in any type of relationship, but this game makes it fun and approachable. I played it with my partner and at times it was uncomfortable as I had to confront challenges from my past, but being open to vulnerability made the experience more meaningful for the both of us. Highly recommend!
I have enjoyed the questions. It has sparked some great conversations.
These cards are great for starting the conversation about sex with your lover. If your lover is not used to talking about sex, this is a low-pressure conversation starter. I love how the cards progress and it really helps you to get your partner in a more intimate way!
This is such a powerful tool for facilitating interpersonal communication. I would recommend it for all romantically partnered couples but also for personal self-reflection and even between friends. The questions are thought provoking but not intimidating.
I enjoyed playing this game with both my partner and a friend, to deepen both my relationship with my partner but also my own individual relationship to intimacy alongside friends. I found some of the questions asked about reflections on shame that were uncomfortable as they brought up memories from days of compulsory heteronormativity that would rather be forgotten. We decided to just skip these now. We haven’t gotten thru the whole deck yet, but so far have mostly enjoyed the conversations.